There are many articles detailing how relationships end. Most of them talk about differences that were just irreconcilable which is a funny thing to think about. What differences can you find out about someone that you didn’t know about when you first got together with them? The truth is that people grow all the time and if we’re not careful we may grow apart. This doesn’t have to be the end of a relationship though, just because you two have fallen out of touch doesn’t mean you can’t still be in love. When talking to a friend who is a twice divorcee I asked her what had happened and she simply replied with ‘I couldn’t tell them what I wanted anymore.’ This wasn’t out of fear but more out of simply not knowing how to speak to one a
nother anymore. It seems like something so simple but truly the one thing that seems to drive people apart the most is lack of communication.
However you got there is irrelevant but if you really want things to not go south once you arrive at the fork in the road you have a choice to make. Either you fix it or bale. So if you want to fix it it’s time you get talking. Talking isn’t always easy but it’s 100% possible. If you don’t know where to start then how about the words ‘I want to get a tantric massage together’ yes, this will surely jolt your partner into existence. The truth is tantric massages, especially from reputable agencies such as London Tantric are a wonderful way to re-learn how to communicate, how to set boundaries, how to ask for what you want. The massage will also remind you both how nice it was to be close to each other physically. If you really feel like giving yourself a fighting chance then why not try something new, sexy, fun and, above all, an activity that will remind you just how much you truly love each other.